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你有没有这样的感觉：明明很努力，却总是运气很差？
有升迁涨薪的机会，领导总是留给别的同事；
绞尽脑汁做的方案，半天聊下来，客户还不动心；
花大钱请同事朋友吃饭，反而越吃感情越差；
别人的亲戚总是愿意帮他一把，你请亲戚帮忙，一开口就被婉拒……
看着别人人缘好，总有人帮助，你一定很羡慕吧？
其实做事做人，三分靠努力，七分靠运势。而运势哪里来？不靠求神拜佛，也不靠风水命理，而是靠贵人，让他为你推波助澜。
但贵人不会从天而降，你需要让你的老板，同事，亲戚朋友、甚至陌生人愿意帮你，真心提携你一把，这会比你瞎忙瞎转有用！
所以，对中国人来说，有一条结交贵人，扩大有效人脉圈，求人办事的捷径——那就是饭局。
在一场饭局里，有来自五湖四海，不同阶层的人。其中，笨的人在专心吃饭，而聪明人，则在钻研怎么入局，结交贵人，办事情。
如果你在饭局混的好，人脉人缘很可能是你的运势，为你的人生推波助澜。
娱乐圈里的草根逆袭典范——王宝强成功离不开饭局。
王宝强和马蓉闹离婚时，连几十万律师费都掏不出来，陈思诚听了没有犹豫，拿出一百万借给他。
离婚后事业陷入谷底时，陈思诚请他当《唐人街探案》的主角，帮他的事业重回巅峰。
另外，王宝强也曾采访透露，自己最感恩的人是刘德华，甚至想下跪感谢。十年前参加电影节聚餐，乡下来的王宝强就遇到他的贵人刘德华，高情商的刘德华多次帮他解围。
和这些明星一样，许多中国人喜欢以小见大，从饭局识人。
马云、董明珠、王石等人都曾经表示，会从饭局观察他们员工的人品和做事，提拔员工要考虑到饭局表现，90%的员工提拔会参考饭局表现。
马云：从员工饭局酒品看他们的人品
所以，无论多小的一顿饭，都可能成为你人生逆风翻盘的机会。
即便你不想飞黄腾达，但如果想做生意，求人办事还是绕不开饭局。网易老板丁磊曾经自曝，和阿里巴巴的很多合作，多是在饭局是和马云一拍即合。
不要总是抱怨自己人缘差，亲戚不帮忙，做事不成功。
中国是个人情社会，无论是办事情还是识贵人，如果懂得运用饭局，你的成功率很可能提高90%。
早一天搞懂饭局里的社交潜规则
你就有机会少吃点亏，多交一些贵人
饭人人都会吃，但饭局却没几个能吃懂。
一顿饭局，看似轻松，其实从宾客，座次，话题，劝酒，气氛每样都有许多门道。如果不是那些饭局老江湖，很多人都摸不清这些，甚至在饭局里下错功夫，还给别人留下了坏印象。
朋友小余干了3年销售，工作勤恳卖力，眼看着要升为部门主管了，却因为一场饭局，害他险些丢了饭碗。
罪魁祸首，就是小余的一句话。
半个月前，公司老总为了谈成一笔大单，特意叫上最熟悉业务的小余，一起拼了个饭局。
酒刚上桌，小余便热情给客户敬酒，却不料遭到拒绝：“抱歉，我不喝酒的。”
以为对方只是客气，小余直接把酒往杯子里灌：“别客气，来了都是客，不喝就是不给面子哈，我先干为敬。”
客户一脸为难，老总连忙解围道：“醉翁之意不在酒嘛，情义到了，喝不喝您随意。”
小余倒好，压根没领会老总在给客户找台阶，反倒自以为幽默地补了一刀：“各位都是有头有脸的大人物，怎会怕了这两口小酒呢！”
这话一出，老总脸都黑了，几个客户一脸嫌弃：“怎么这么不会说话！”
不出所料，这生意肯定是黄了。
小余的失礼，让老总大失所望：“业务能力强又怎样，没想到他这么上不了台面，一点人情世故都不懂。”
可想而知，小余晋升肯定是没戏了，反因“情商低”，被死死钉在了“纯业务员”的位子上。
不谙饭局说话之道，要么说错话要么不会说，在饭桌上毫不起眼；
不懂拒酒之法，被人劝酒，喝到稀里糊涂出洋相，伤身损形象；
不懂得沟通技巧，花钱请人吃高价餐厅，钱花了事儿却被无情拒绝……
饭局呀，如果你不懂门路，看起来就像“甄嬛传”。
但如果你搞懂一些聪明的说话技巧，其实处处都有“现成的套路”，有机会让你直接打动饭局里每一个人的心，成为你人生的贵人，抓住你的机会。
有人说话信手拈来，但有人却怎么都学不好学不会。
学会高情商地说话，才能真正赢得人心，让对方为自己所用，这才是真正得到所谓的“人脉”关键。
会说话并不是天生就有的，而是需要系统学习的。
一旦你掌握了高情商的说话术，也能和他们一样，饭局上不但轻松把事办了，还能成为一个受欢迎的人。
而一遇尴尬境地就懵圈的你，是不是非常苦恼，比如：
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如何用几句甜言蜜语，升温亲密关系 ；
如何借力打力，怼回去针对自己的人；
如何回绝上司的无理要求，轻松say no ；
如何巧妙的给老板提升职加薪，有动力的卖力……
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